Since Daddy & Thing 1 are gone to camp for the night and Thing 2 is not happy about being left at home with me I thought I'd treat him to a McDonalds Happy Meal for dinner tonight.
Let me clarify a few points before I go any further:
1. I personally do not eat McDonalds food, haven't in over 3(ish) months and quite honestly the thought of the grease completely grosses me out.
2. My kiddos do not eat McDonalds on a regular basis, they are fed home cooked, healthy foods most of the time.
3. Please do not tell me I'm a horrible parent for occasionally giving my kids an unhealthy meal, I know what the food at McDonalds consists of but I feel that it's better to let them have it once in a while than to have them binge on it when they are with friends, etc., because I know I can't shelter them forever.
Okay, so I ask Thing 2 if he wants a cheeseburger or chicken nuggets, he chooses a cheeseburger, we order through the drive through and take it home so Mommy can eat her dinner too.
I get home, open the bag and pulled out the french fries. What there was of the french fries...10 fries in all. I know, I counted. There was a little bag of the fruit formerly known as apple dippers (now known as apple slices since we're not allowed to have caramel dipping sauce anymore either). Thank goodness the cheeseburger and the toy he really, really wanted were there.
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Reese's PB Cup used to show actual size of french fry packaging, more packaging than french fries! |
I totally and completely support any and all efforts to curb obesity in this country. It's a terrible thing to walk around my sons' elementary school and see so many overweight children.
What I don't support is that now I feel like, as a parent, my choices are being taken away from me. The one little treat that I give the boys now makes me feel like a horrible parent for choosing it at all.
The worst part is that I'm feeling bad about this but I'm supposed to be okay with letting my kids buy school lunch that consists of mozzarella sticks one day, "rib-b-que" (think McRib, no joke) the next, followed by corn dogs the next. Seriously. How does that make any sense?
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Actual school lunch menu |
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Can't make this stuff up...mozzarella sticks were on the October menu |
At the end of the day, my kids' nutrition is my responsibility, just like every other parent out there. These children can not buy themselves a Happy Meal unless Mommy or Daddy or some other adult in their life takes them to McDonalds and buys it for them. I have an issue with being told that since others are "irresponsible", I need to be "punished" with everyone else.
And you can't tell me that if a kid wants french fries, Mommy or Daddy won't order a larger fry to go with their healthier Happy Meal. Should we just put McDonalds and every other restaurant out of business and be done with it?
I took it in my stride when restaurants started posting calorie content on their menu and banned trans fat but this just seems out of control to me.
When are we going to wake up and realize that we are responsible for our own choices, good and bad?
Sometimes there's no one but ourselves to blame for where we are today.
Every choice you make matters, some more than others, but over time bad choices add up.
Just don't forget that good choices add up too. :)